ohh.. thanks joe, thanks for the comment there in mah TB.. whoever you are, i appreciated it. anyway, while browsing this forum i'm checking out, i saw a thread -- "is courtship dead?" well, absolutely yes! i still believe in courtship, i know i'm still conservative when it comes to those stuff.. i felt the urge to respond to that thread so i just posted a comment saying i'm a believer, you know i'm an independent person living my own life so i want the guy to really make me feel like a girl. that's the time that i can be treated like a princess. Ü i wanna feel special and of course i wanna see what he can do in the name of love. mushy isn't it? Ü well, if a guy can't accept me for who i am, "bye bye!"